pain will always be the foundation of beautiful things

It's true that most of us willfully consent to what we see as right in our eyes. Like careless drivers , we follow the dictates of our hearts and stubbornly become slaves to our own feelings and desires. We fail to think rationally and blindly ignore the " red stop light" that warns us of peril ahead . We may have been victims of ignorance but when the truth is finally revealed to us , we still choose to remain nonchalant and care less about the consequences of our actions.There are those who were misled into believing that a relationship was right and there are those who knew that is was a sin right from the beginning. But many of us , even after knowing we're going the wrong way still choose to take the chance and persistently stay on that road , even if we know of the danger that lurks in it's path .God always puts a red stop light along our journey to remind us that we are going to hurt ourselves if we stubbornly step on the gas and move on. But he doesn't put a physical barrier to keep us in place . In the end , it is still our choice, based on our own free will to stop what is wrong and move on with what is right.Life is a matter of choice. We are who we choose to become and we become what we want ourselves to be. Where we are now speaks of the road we chose to travel. Who we are now reflects the decisions we made earlier in our lives.For a time, you seem to have found your place in someone's life. But it wasn't a place you can call your own because it was somebody else's home. You chose not to become a part of it not because it was what your heart wanted you to do but because it was what your conscience was telling you.
Always remember that pain will always be the foundation of beautiful things that are yet to come. There can never be life without love but then again, there can never be love without pain. So let that pain remain to make you strong so you maybe able to look back where love has gone you and look ahead where love will come again.