Wednesday, September 9, 2009

There is no such thing as a perfect partner

Unless you do something about how you feel right now, I'm afraid your bitter thoughts will be like a slow poison that will eventually take away the life that keeps your relationship on the ground. To be able to trust wholeheartedly without any doubt is a vital as the love that stands as a stronghold of a commitment.
A man who falls into the lure of getting attached to someone other than the one he loves usually gets away denying it and lying with words. You must understand that there are deeply-rooted reasons why he acts that way. He may never be able to justify it and you may fail to accept it. But acts of infidelity would most likely happen at least once in every relationship's lifetime.
There is no such thing as a perfect partner. We would always stumble and fall., hurt ourselves and the people we love. If there will never be any room for forgiveness then most of us would be living with regret and bitter memories of letting go of people precious and important to us.
Before finally considering marriage, you should first find peace in accepting him for all that he has done to hurt you and learn to forgive him for it. Relationships that are clouded with doubts and filled with disbelief are like houses built on sand. They crack and fall apart on the slightest provocation. Love isn't love without trust and trust will never find its roots if we are too hard to forgive and too revengeful in not giving those we love a second chance

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