Thursday, April 12, 2012

Taking Chances

Not all men are demonstrative and expressive with their feelings. Most men are afraid to open up because that makes them vulnerable and they, too, are afraid of being rejected. There are instances when a man will not be able to find enough courage to put his act together and let a girl know that he’s interested in her. It is true that finding out how a person really feels for us can be quite difficult. Everyone sends different signals and shows gestures that may have different meanings. A person may be sweet and caring even without any romantic intention.

How are we then supposed to find out if a person feels the same way we do? Should that affect the way we feel for that person? I don’t believe that the expression of our romantic feelings should follow gender rules.There is nothing wrong in being honest about what we feel. Start making yourself heard. You will never know where this road could lead if you don’t give yourself the chance to see what lies one step ahead. You don’t have to finish the entire journey. Walk half of it and let the other person walk his half. When you meet halfway then that could be that start of something beautiful. If you find yourself alone in the middle of the road, then that means not that someone to share your dreams with.

We choose to remain silent and realize the chance we’ve missed only when its too late. There is nothing wrong with letting someone know that we like them. If we find love then that could be the start of a lasting relationship. Even if we don’t, we would still be lucky for we wouldn’t have to live the rest of our lives regretting what we didn’t do and crying over the things that could have been.

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