Sometimes, it really makes us wonder why the people we like only as friends are the ones who show interest in us and those we like treat us only as friends. Why can’t we just like somebody who would also feel the same way for us? It doesn’t always happen that way and that is the reason why people who fall in love get hurt. They allow themselves to get emotionally attached to a person and they begin to expect that they would be treated differently from the others.
But, the fact is, more often than not we would be attracted to a person who probably wound want to have us only as a friend and nothing more. There could be nothing wrong with this but the thing is, it is sometimes hard to interpret the meaning of one’s actions.
The problem lies on the fact that we have special feelings for that person and most of the time, we put so much meaning to the way they treats us, when the truth is "we are just friends". We usually go one step ahead of the real relationship that and begin to expect something beautiful from it.
Then, we get disappointed when we realize that there were no special feelings after all. It was simply a story of a great friendship.
The truth hurts but it is the only thing that could set us free. If friendship means a lot then, have to accept the fact that you should not entertain romantic feelings. You have to treat only as a friend and nothing more. I don’t see anything wrong in telling how you really feel but don’t expect anything in return and don’t make feel obliged to acknowledge it. Just let know, so you can finally be at peace with your self. Let us always remember that every tear of sadness that we shed for a person we love is a capsule of memory that we have to leave behind. We fall in love so that we will learn , we get hurt so that we will become strong, and we cry so that we can let go and find our place in the life of someone who will love us the way we want to be loved.
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